There’s good news in Fairfax County, Virginia, as the Virginia CPS hired mediator, attorney Jim Pope, ruled that there was no evidence to sustain the child abuse allegation leveled against Monika Wesolowski, in a recent CPS administrative hearing.

Pope concluded that the unfounded allegation will be thrown out. Therefore, Dylan will soon be coming home to his mother, right? Well, not exactly, not just yet. One should not expect the Virginia CPS/DFS and the Fairfax County Attorney’s office to play fair. These groups show signs of concocting yet more strategies, and another false set of charges, that will keep the abused mother and son apart.








Monika Wesolowski was branded a “Level One Child Abuser” by the Virginia CPS. This designation would have stayed with Monika for 18 years. The prior CPS administrative hearing would give any Kangaroo Court a good name. At the original hearing, Monika was not allowed to present evidence in her behalf. In particular, Monika was in possession of a pediatrician’s medical report, that this author has seen, which concluded that her son, Dylan, was NOT assaulted by his mother. As this first hearing, the presiding CPS hearing officer refused to consider any evidence from Monika and, as a result, the boy was illegally stolen from the mother and put into the custody of two foster fathers where the boy has failed to thrive.

Monika’s declaration of being declared a Level One Child Abuser could have led to the loss of her State Department security clearance as this would have resulted in the loss of her job and also would have practically barred her from obtaining most future employment. Monika was only a few months away from losing Dylan, all together, when she contacted me and asked for my help.

The Bullies From the Virginia CPS/DFS

The terms justice and the Virginia CPS/DFS are not synonymous terms and should not be used in the same sentence.  It is a system of justice befitting the worst ethics of a third world country as these two organizations financially benefit from stealing children and subsequently money, not truth and child welfare, become the main motivating force. We the people need to force the federal government from giving federal funds to these criminal organizations because it incentivizes child kidnapping by misusing the power of the law.

Many of my readers and listeners are aware of the horrible abuse perpetrated upon Monika Wesolowski and her son Dylan, as they have suffered through unimaginable horrors brought on by vigilante style of justice by the Virginia CPS, Department of Family Services and the County Attorney’ s office of Fairfax County, Virginia. Since the time of Dylan’s seizure by CPS, Monika and Dylan’s lives have been a living hell.

While in foster care, Dylan, age 5, regressed to wearing diapers and would move his arms in a sexually suggestive manner and would call for his mother to cut his arms off. The boy also developed a rash in the vicinity of his rectum and the mother cried sexual abuse and reported these symptoms to the local authorities and to the Virginia CPS. The aforementioned tax supported organizations did not investigate in either a timely or meaningful manner, thus, leaving the boy in a continual state of stress and danger. No reasonable person could conclude that these rogue entities gave a  damn about this kid, but they did get their federal money.They did extort money out Monika to support their bogus and invalidated rehabilitation programs.

It Is About Winning, Not Justice

Being a sore loser, the Assistant County Attorney, M. Chris Sigler, of Fairfax County, Virginia, is still attempting to justify the unwarranted theft of Dylan. He is trying to get Monika to take yet ANOTHER psychological evaluation for the second time, because he did not get the insanity results he was looking for the first time she took the exam. He is obviously hoping that he can get an unscrupulous psychological evaluator who will play ball with the system and declare Monika to be insane after the fact and this will become the NEW justification to keep Dylan away from his mother.

In the first psychological profile, the presiding psychologist concluded the boy should be returned to his mother. The psychological evaluation was conducted by Dr. Sing. Despite being paid by CPS for his services, Dr. Sing concluded that “the bond between mother and son is strong and there is no reason that mother and son should not be reunified”. However, that was not good enough for  M. Chris Sigler and the Department of Family Services social worker, Magda Alarcon.  Monika was ordered by CPS to obtain, at her cost, a therapist. CPS approved the selection of Jenna Duffy as the therapist. Alarcon has subsequently pressured the therapist to diagnose Monika with a mental illness. Duffy has refused and has stated as much in her response to Alarcon’s unethical demand. These facts clearly exposes the NEW strategy being used to keep Dylan from Monika. They are forum shopping for a different psychological report (Sigler) and unethically pressuring therapists, that CPS approved, to make false and politically pressured diagnoses (Alarcon). If I lived in Virginia, I would be looking to clean house. Justice should start by unelecting the County Attorney in the next election and then Mr. Sigler would likely be looking for other employment. Everyone connected with this case, in CPS/DFS should be immediately fired. If you think this is a strong statement, read the following statement and you will see that this is righteous justice.

In the recent hearing, the CPS officials, under oath could not even cite their own level one abuse regulations and procedures, that they did not follow, as these procedures related to the child abuse allegations brought against Monika. Monika’s attorney made them look like incompetent amateurs as he exposed their arrogance and lawlessness of each CPS witness questioned on this matter.

CPS Says One Can’t Be a Gun Owner AND a Parent!

Also at the hearing, Monika was told by CPS that they had serious concerns about releasing the boy to his mother because she is a registered gun owner. As incredulous as is this Second Amendment violation is, it should be noted that the two original foster fathers, who were given custody of Dylan, are reportedly gun owners as well. Again, CPS is grasping at straws because they were caught with their professional pants down and the Assistant County Attorney is going to have a very difficult time defending these violators of the public trust in a court of law.

What They Were Not Counting On

What Sigler, Alarcon and the CPS officials were not betting on is that they would encounter a petite, 5’1″ blonde who would have more intestinal fortitude than the parties who have acted in such a heinous manner towards Monika and Dylan.

What they were not counting on was the fact that Monika would find me, and through the incredible generosity of my readers and listeners, would be able to raise enough money to mount a formidable legal defense against this tyranny.

What they were also not counting on was the fact that other media, like Steve Quayle, Sheila Zilinski, John B. Wells, Ernie Hancock and Doug and Joe Hagmann, as well as many Americans with a loving heart would take an intense interest in this case and would lend a helping hand. It is no longer the Virginia CPS vs. Monika and Dylan Wesolowski, this is now the case of the fair-minded people of this nation vs. an over-reaching and out of control bureaucratic monstrosity that is undermining the American family!

A Word to the Wise

At the hearing, Monika’s adversaries stated that they had moved Dylan out of the foster home of the two fathers and placed Dylan with a Catholic family which is what should have happened in the first place since Monika is a Catholic and the CPS regulations require that the foster environment duplicate the original home environment as much as possible. Rather than admitting their prior mistakes, these public servants blamed The Common Sense Show and yours truly for needing to remove Dylan from the previous foster home.

The reason that they gave for moving the boy was that Dave Hodges had put Dylan at risk by publishing articles and airing shows about the case. They alleged that I placed the foster fathers in danger by somehow advocating for violence against them and subsequently I put Dylan at risk as well. First of all, I do not know the foster fathers names and addresses and I never insinuated or asked for anyone to commit any act of aggression towards anyone in this case. My sole actions have consisted of alerting the public to these illegal behaviors on the part of the identified organizations and individuals. Secondly, I helped to raise money for a legal defense fund for Monika and Dylan. That is the extent of my actions. in this case. These allegations made against my show and myself are on the court reporter’s record and constitute a blatant set of lies as these events have been related to me.

If these authorities continue down this path with this type of reported slander towards The Common Sense Show, they will be traveling to Maricopa County, AZ. in order to face a civil action.

The Future

Unless the Virginia CPS/DFS and the County Attorney’s office returns Dylan immediately, Monika is going to file an action in civil court in Virginia. With the allegation of child abuse removed, these parties have no material reason as to why they are still hanging on to the child. However, instead of admitting their egregious mistakes, they continue to try and justify the abduction of Dylan.

Thanks to everyone’s generosity, we have raised $25,000 dollars. However, this will not be enough if the bad guys continue to ignore the law and also act with their spirit of retribution towards Monika and Dylan.

We would ask that you would reach into your pockets and donate what you can to help Monika continue this fight against this horrendous abuse of power by the County Attorney’s Office of Fairfax Virginia and the Virginia CPS/DFS renegade agents. We are still well short of our goal. Any donation amount is appreciated, whether the gift is $5 or $5,000 dollars. You may donate below to our donation site which you will see below. Also, a snail mail address is listed below as well. 


The Snail mail address in Support of Monika Wesolowski’s Legal Defense Fund

Monika Wesolowski   PO Box 40926                 1210 S Glebe Rd                Arlington VA       22204-9998